How To Get Through A Job You Hate

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It’s reasonable to say that we’ve all either despised our jobs or had friends and family who did.

Whether you’re undervalued, your boss is a monster, or your job is plain dull, there are a variety of reasons why you can be dissatisfied at work.

Even though hating your job is a widespread feeling, it doesn’t make it any easier if you’re truly unhappy.

Being dissatisfied with your work can have a negative impact on your mental health, physical health, and general well-being.

If you’re unsatisfied with your current job, consider taking the following steps to enhance your working environment, lower stress, and avert possible future health issues.

Ask Yourself, “What’s Not Working?”

Before making any rash decisions, try to find out the key reason (or reasons) why you hate your job.

Some common reasons include toxic work culture, an unappreciative boss, high demand work rewarded with low pay, lack of benefits, unfavorable hours, and unfulfilling/meaningless work. 

We all have a temptation to become so preoccupied with how unhappy we are that we fail to detect what is driving that misery.

So, it’s time to confront yourself with some difficult questions regarding your current circumstances. Is it your job that you despise, or is it your boss?

Is there one aspect of your job that leaves you with a bad taste in your mouth? Have you always been dissatisfied with your job?

Sure, this self-analysis isn’t the highly effective first step you were looking for. These critical questions, however, will lay the framework for you to face the next phases with a level head and a focused perspective.

Open Up

Once you’ve determined what is causing your discontent with your job, it’s time to have those unpleasant conversations with the authorities that be.

Is your workload too much for you? Do you believe you are not being paid fairly for the amount of labor you put in?

Is a team member not doing his or her job, which is adding to your dissatisfaction? Discuss these with your boss to see if there are any changes that can be implemented.

So, if something is bothering you, it’s up to you to take action and speak openly. Employers are often prepared to go above and above to retain great staff.

So, who knows, you and your boss might come up with some brilliant answers to your difficulties and boost your satisfaction.

Shift Your Focus

“Try to be optimistic!” is another tiring bit of career advice you receive when you loathe your current job.

And we’re doing our best to avoid repeating that stale notion. However, we truly feel that a small alteration in your attitude could make all the difference in the world for you.

When you despise what you do, it is just too common to feel that you’re just throwing in the hours till you can eventually get out of that cesspit.

That bitter, pessimistic attitude, on the other hand, isn’t going to make your life any better. On the contrary, in fact. It will only make matters worse.

So, rather than viewing each workday as another time slot in which you must fulfil your obligations and sludge your way through, consider it an opportunity to continue honing your skills and overcome new difficulties.

And besides, what’s worse than putting in 8 hours at a job you absolutely loathe? 

Talk To Someone

Opening up and sharing how you feel can be really helpful when trying to gain perspective on your current situation.

And no, we don’t mean hopping on Twitter and badmouthing your boss or exposing your workplace as unhealthy or toxic. This should be avoided at all costs.

But it doesn’t say you can’t ever express your dissatisfaction with your job. In truth, a little bit of venting can be beneficial—as long as you’re mindful of how you do it.

So, take a trustworthy friend and air your grievances and annoyances. I understand that complaining does not always result in a positive outcome.

However, you’ll be shocked at how much better you feel after releasing all of your emotions and tensions. 

If you feel that you can’t talk openly about these kinds of things with a family member or friend, consider talking to a therapist to try to tackle these feelings and get the advice you really need.

Consider Cutting Your Hours

Although it may seem like a utopian dream, requesting a reduction in your hours can be an extremely effective means of gaining more time and energy without jeopardizing your employment.

This isn’t for everybody, but it’s something to think about. Often people are pleasantly surprised by the amount of freedom and help they can receive if they only summon the confidence to ask.

Perhaps you’ll get a negative response. Perhaps it’s unsettling. Maybe you’re concerned about the implications.

However, you could have more possibilities than you realize, especially if you begin with a slight reduction in hours. If you simply ask, many workplaces have flexible working allowances.

Working alternative hours in the day (beginning and ending earlier), working remotely for a day or 2 throughout the week, or even lowering your hours to part-time are just a few ideas that may help you enjoy your job again.

When contacting your employer about it, make sure you don’t say you want to change the situation because you dislike your job – again

You need to pitch it to them on how it would help the firm and increase productivity in the long run.

Try A Side Hustle

Everyone appreciates a solid side hustle! They not only provide you with the possibility to earn extra money, but they can also provide you with something else to concentrate on outside of your employment. 

You’d be surprised how much more acceptable your workplace environment can be when you’re daydreaming about the next step in your own venture.

Never overlook how inspiring it can be to hate your work when it comes to starting a new business.

Implement Change

If you believe something at work could be enhanced or amended, come up with your own suggestions. You may perhaps have a brilliant suggestion that will be positively received by your boss.

It never hurts to have a problem-solving mentality, and this is a terrific method to make genuine adjustments to a workplace environment that isn’t working.

Just remember to always be nice and considerate when expressing your thoughts.

Waiting for someone else to repair things (while being unhappy because your situation isn’t how you would like it to be) is not a productive strategy.

If you’re feeling dissatisfied and miserable in your job, finding the desire to take the lead with something isn’t going to be the most obvious or pleasurable thing to do.

However, if it is important to you, it is up to you to make the necessary changes. And if it is important to you, it is likely to be important to others as well.

Consider the one thing that might have the greatest positive impact on your workweek and inform your manager that you want to focus on improving it.

Protect Your Downtime

When you’re at home, it can be difficult to disconnect from work. Unresolved disputes and incomplete tasks can seep into family life.

However, it is critical to take the necessary efforts to create a clear delineation between the two.

Consider how you’d spend your time if you didn’t despise your job, and concentrate on those hobbies or connections regardless of whether you’re too exhausted or don’t feel up to it.

When a work-related impulse or feeling arises, try to recognize it, then gently return your focus to the current now — and explain to yourself why what you’re doing is essential to you.

Your interests may be elsewhere, which is one of the reasons we often struggle to enjoy work that isn’t going anywhere for us.

That’s why it’s critical to keep your passions fueled on the side. This can be a passion, sport, pastime, or even a side hustle that is relevant to what you intend to do in the long run.

Set Boundaries

Unless you’re living technology-free, it’s natural to think you have a smartphone and can interact with others almost instantly.

That is if you choose to respond to the small notification that appears on your device or pc.

If you know you’ll be leaving the office for an occasion or simply don’t want to be disturbed, send out an email informing folks that you may take some time to react to their questions. 

If you’re going on vacation, notify your employer that you’ll be unreachable for a length of time. If you truly want to disengage from work, switch off your phone’s notifications for all except the most important calls.

Leave Gracefully

If you’ve already tried the ideas we’ve suggested in this list and you are still feeling deeply unhappy in your current job, it’s probably time to bid adieu. Some indicators that you’ve reached this point include.

You dread waking up to start work, you see no opportunities to develop, your physical and or mental health is affected, and you’ve tried everything you can to make it work. 

Rather than bursting into the boss’s office and shrieking “I quit,” take a moment to draft a termination letter with your two weeks’ notice.

Consider volunteering to teach someone to pick up your responsibilities so that you can depart with no ill will.

Remember, you may need a recommendation for a new job, or the new employer may wish to contact your previous one for a reference.

You don’t want to burn any bridges on your way out.  You want to depart on a positive note so that you may begin your new role with renewed vigor and a fresh perspective.

Jamie Willis